The Eff* bomb

Hey Guys. 

Where the heck have I been you might be asking? Well super super busy, sick, mix that with my procrastination problem well, I might just disappear for awhile. The good news is I'm BACK and my brain is on overload which has given me a ton of things to think [blog] about.  

Today's post is titled The F* bomb. Now I know what you're thinking. What the f*ck is she talking about? Well let me elaborate.

FORGIVENESS.

Tough word isn't it? But here's the thing. I realized that we are going to go through hell sometimes. We're going to fight, give silent treatments, yell, cry, rant, talk shit, sit and think about horrible things happening to people who have intentionally hurt us. We're going to feel all these things that we might think are going to make us feel better not realizing that all we really need to do is forgive. 

It's a very tough thing to do, especially when all you can think about is how hurt or disappointed you may have been after going through whatever you were put through. Part of moving on is letting go, and you will never let go completely unless you drop the F* bomb first. 

So try it out. You don't need to call anyone up and tell them that. You just have to let yourself know that you have & I guarantee you will start feeling better. Forgiveness is tied to acceptance. You must first accept what has happened, even though it might be the worst thing in the world. Take it for what it is. You're still standing, you're still breathing which means as much as you felt the world was coming to an end, it hasn't and it won't. Accept and you will be able to forgive.

So here it goes. I forgive you. Anyone who's ever talked shit, called me a bitch, made me cry, made me doubt for even a second. I forgive you and I do because well I don't care. Which lets me know that I'm at such a better place than you might be. 

So there it is. The F* bomb, just remember; just because you can forgive, doesn't mean you have to fucking forget. Karma's a bitch!

Happy Days :)